After being faced with a whole host of devastating visiting difficulties in recent years, we are now faced with the seemingly unfamiliar question of how often should we visit elderly parents and relatives?
When an elderly parent, relative or other close loved one moves into a care home, it can cause a big change to your usual routine. Especially if you were acting as a carer for them, it can be difficult to recognise when and how often to visit now they are receiving care from the care home staff.
Being able to find the balance in your own life as well as theirs is important, so here are our tips on how often you should visit your elderly parents and relatives.
There’s no right answer to how often you should visit your elder family members as everyone’s personal situations are different. Various factors come into play when figuring out how often you should visit your elderly parents, such as distance, childhood experiences, family dynamics and ability.
However, many different studies prove the social isolation of the elderly is associated with cognitive decline, a decline in health and depression. Regular visiting is vital for reassuring your loved ones that you are there for them, so deciding how often you visit is simply down to how often you can manage to with your schedule.
A good way to find out how often people visit their loved ones in care homes is to ask the staff as they will be able to gauge how often a visit can benefit your loved one, as they are the ones spending the most time with your loved one.
There are so many benefits that come with visiting your elderly parents and relatives, from combatting loneliness to letting them know how important they are to you, it's a great way to brighten up their day.
It’s easy to load guilt on yourself if you think you aren’t visiting enough, but there are many different ways you can make the most of your visits so that you and your elderly family members can cherish the time that you spend together, no matter how often it is.
Whilst it may be a familiar act, it’s important to not interfere with the care of other residents in care homes it is the nurses and carers role and it may not be safe for you to do so. It’s important to build good relationships with the carers and nurses as they are a great source when it comes to finding out how your elderly parent or relative is doing.
It also may not be possible to be able to visit your loved one as much as you would like and it’s important to not feel guilty about this. Your loved one is receiving all the correct care and is likely to have a wealth of companions and brand new friends in their new home.
When your elderly parent or loved ones move into a care home, it can take a while to adjust and figure out a new visiting routine, especially if you are used to being a care provider for them. Regular visits can give you peace of mind that they are in good hands and are receiving the care they need.