When someone is coming to the end of their life, it’s understandable to feel a variety of different emotions, especially if your loved one has been very unwell. End of life care helps your loved one to spend the last few months or years of their life in peace and comfort, surrounded by everything they need to manage their condition.
Although you might typically associate end of life care with a hospice, in the right circumstances you can also receive end of life care at home. To learn more about what this involves, read on.
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End of life care refers to the care and support for those who are in the last months or years of their life. Although there may be no cure for these people’s health condition or disease, end of life care helps them to live as comfortably as possible until they die and gives them a dignified death.
You can receive end of life care at home, in hospital, in a hospice or in a care home, depending on the level of care you need. You have the right to say where you want to receive care and where you want to die - this should all be included in your care plan, which you can put together with family, friends and carers.
End of life care is flexible - it begins when someone starts to need it and can last anywhere from a few days to a few years.
For example, if someone experiences a catastrophic event such as a stroke, they may only require end of life care for a few days or weeks, as opposed to someone who is receiving consistent end of life care over the course of many months or years to manage a condition.
However, a ballpark figure for end of life care for a dying person is usually around 12 months.
There are lots of different circumstances that may call for end of life care. These include:
You can be given end of life care in a variety of different places, including:
In your care journey, you may also have heard of palliative care homes. Palliative care is included in the end of life care umbrella and refers to care for someone who has an illness that cannot be cured, whereas convalescent care refers to a form of care that involves recovering from an illness or injury. Palliative care helps to make that person as comfortable as possible, as well as manage their pain and other symptoms.
A holistic approach to palliative care can also include psychological, social and spiritual support for the person, their family and friends and carers. Although it is usually used to refer to someone who is approaching the end of their life, you can in fact receive palliative care earlier in your illness, alongside other therapies.
Palliative care can consist of a number of different services, including:
There are several different palliative care options you can look into. Keep reading to find out more about each type.
You can access hospice care from the day you are diagnosed with a terminal illness, although depending on your specific condition and circumstances, the length of time you spend in a hospice will differ.
You can also live at home but visit a hospice a couple of days a week for a hybrid approach. This means you can benefit from staying in your own home while still receiving specialist care services that will help you to manage your condition.
If you would rather stay at home and have people come to visit for short periods of time, home visits might be the best option for you. You can select the number of times a carer will visit each week and the length of time they stay for. Home visits usually range from short 30 minute check-ups to a few visits per day. You can also arrange for overnight stays if needed.
If you have been diagnosed with a life-limiting illness, or you are reaching the end of your life, you don’t necessarily have to leave your home. If you and your relatives feel that you would be more comfortable at home, you can opt to have live in care.
Live in care involves 24-hour care, which is an appealing prospect for many people - not only are you in a familiar setting, surrounded by all your own pets, furniture and possessions, but it’s also easier for loved ones to visit. Your carer will be matched to you via a suitability check; both for your care needs but also your personality.
If you want to look into live in care, you will need to be assessed for NHS Continuing Healthcare. You may even be eligible for free care, funded by the NHS. To find out more, speak to your GP, local authority or social care worker.
If your loved one is nearing the end of their life, you can use the checklist below to make sure you’re as prepared as you can be in this difficult time:
A carer’s assessment assesses your needs and how caring for your loved one affects your life. You can ask for a carer’s assessment from your local care services.
After doing the assessment, you may find that you’re entitled to special equipment or home adaptation to help you care for your loved one. Social services are able to provide equipment and training as well.
There may be different health and social care professionals involved in end of life care. The people who are involved will depend on the dying person’s condition and care needs. Read on to learn more about which professionals might be involved.
The GP will be you or your loved one’s main contact during end of life care and will prescribe medication, coordinate support from other healthcare professionals and advise on all the different types of support available to help manage the condition.
District nurses are registered nurses with expert knowledge and qualifications. Nurses help to organise care services from other healthcare professionals, provide practical and emotional support and offer advice.
There are specialist types of nurses such as palliative care clinical nurse specialists and community nurses, who specialise in helping patients with illnesses like cancer and their families with things like pain management and psychological support. They will also help the patient to make a care plan for the future.
If you or the person you are caring for has had a needs assessment through social services, social workers may be involved in your care plan. Social workers are in charge of non-medical support such as arranging for meals to be delivered and adapting your home to make it easier for you to move around and carry out daily tasks.
If you or the person you care for have complex care needs, a district nurse may arrange for home care workers to help out. Care workers can assist with personal tasks such as eating, drinking, washing, dressing and going to the toilet.
A palliative care team includes many healthcare professionals, including doctors, nurses, occupational therapists and physiotherapists. These experts help to manage pain and offer emotional, spiritual and psychological support.
In your care journey, you may also come across counsellors and volunteers who provide rehabilitation, physiotherapy and bereavement care services, plus any spiritual and psychological help that you might need.
Depending on your exact circumstances, you may be eligible for financial support if you are caring for someone.
Carer’s Allowance is given to those who spend at least 35 hours a week caring for someone who needs ‘substantial and regular’ care. You do not necessarily need to be related to or live with this person, but Carer's Allowance will be decided based on your income and any benefits they receive.
You could receive £67.60 a week, which you can choose to be paid weekly in advance, ore very four weeks. You will also automatically get National Insurance credits.
Other benefits you may be eligible for include support from your local council, a Council Tax Reduction, Pension Credit, Universal Credit, Income Support and other grants and bursaries, so it’s well worth looking into.
It’s well worth having a look at the support you can get with paying bills when you care for someone at home. This help includes:
If the person you care for is your spouse or civil partner, you may be eligible for financial help when they pass away. Bereavement Support Payment must be claimed within three months of your partner’s death to get the full amount. If you claim after this time, you will receive fewer monthly payments.
Caring for someone at the end of their life improves their quality of life, but the process is often difficult; both physically and emotionally. If you are caring for someone at home, make sure you consider your own needs too and talk to someone if it all gets too much.
Family, friends and healthcare professionals are there to help; whether it’s picking up some shopping or stepping in to help with childcare. There are also plenty of support lines and counselling services available when you need.